Check the link below about THE BLACK WOMAN then read on!
Recently someone sent me this link, it may be very offensive and racist¬†to some but¬†has very good points!¬† It's way to long to¬†play on air but I wanted to share this with you becasue although painful to hear because I too have fallen into some of ¬†these categories, it's REAL TALK¬† of how the black woman may be viewed and how some truly act!¬† My experience¬†: 2 children from 2 different men (7 years apart give me a little credit) Neither guy¬† is a true positive roll model for my son , I hope my Dad rubs off on him.¬†Although I picked these guys, I feel like¬†a victim sometimes.¬† When honestly self esteem, thinking, ¬†a better choice of men and waiting to¬†be married may have changed a lot in my life!¬† So yeah although working hard to be the best Me 1st, ¬†Mom 2nd sometimes I feel low about my choices.¬† Then I see Neffie (Keisha Coles sister)¬† is pregnant again!
as your Mom your thought process may be off just a bit.¬† Nobody ever taught her or gave her an example of a good woman.
¬† She's¬†doing the best she can with what she knows.¬† Which is the problem with most of the woman that are reffered to in the clip.¬† They don't know...
¬†remember the last show she‚Äôd had a baby from someone she met while with her last ¬†husband, she contemplated abortion and now preganant again from a different guy WOW!
¬†¬†¬† I think about the anger she‚Äôs dealing with and the positive things she‚Äôs trying to do and I‚Äôm happy to say TODAY I know better.¬† Having a child plannesd or not can and will slow down progress in growth & carreer.¬† I wish she would‚Äôve waited until she grows a bit more, I also wonder how she truley enteracts with her kids outside the camera?¬† I‚Äôm not dogging Neffie or anyone else facing similar situations but it makes you think when you hear it put in a way such as the clip did!¬† Then I feel bad for Neffie because with this