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DON'T FREAK HIM OUT
by ToshaMakia,posted Oct 27 2011 8:25AM
It's frustrating, but some guys seem to get freaked out by everything. If you want to keep your guy calm, cool, and collected, you should probably steer clear of these things. They will freak most guys out.
Talking about having a baby, or naming a baby. If he's not thinking about babies, this could really freak him out.
Talking about marriage and the future too often. This may be too much too soon for him.
"Ladies Night." He may think you are going to complain about him to your girlfriends.
Saying "We need to talk." Obviously, it sounds like you need to talk about something he did wrong.
Saying "I love you" too much or too soon. Yikes!
Too much contact through texting and calls. This can be too much to handle.
Dramatic mood swings, due to your hormones. Too much drama and mood swings will scare him.
Talking about exes. Who wants to hear about exes?
Having no friends of your own. You need a life of your own. He can't be your "everything. "
yes, this is so true, I am just like this. These are the same things my true love has been doing towards me for over 6 yrs. to the point it caused arguments every time I call or go see her were it pushed me away for days at a time. It' been two months since I've seen her, though she says she now engaged to her brother's cousin (she and her brother have the same mother but different fathers), but she says they are not kin, but in my book if a person know that they are kin some where along the line of the family tree, then you are family.